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    John C. Whitbeck, Jr. practices in the following areas of law: Family Law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation Rights, Adoptions, Spousal Support, Mediation, Arbitration, Relocation Cases, Domestic Violence, Criminal Law, DUI/DWI, Reckless Driving, All Felonies, All Misdemeanors, Juvenile Crimes, Mental Health Law, Civil and Business Litigation, Construction Litigation, Education Law, Election Law, Debt Collection, Consumer and Lemon Law.

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    Ruth M. McElroy practices in the following areas of law: Family law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation Rights, Adoptions, Spousal Support, Relocation Cases, Pre and Post Marital Agreements, Domestic Violence, Reckless Driving, DUI/DWI, Juvenile Crimes, Felony and Misdemeanor Crimes, Traffic Offenses, Debt Collection, Civil and Business Litigation. She serves the Virginia Court system as a Guardian ad litem.

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    Jennifer D. Cisneros practices in the following areas of law: Family law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation Rights, Adoptions, Spousal Support, Relocation Cases, Domestic Violence, Juvenile Crimes, Reckless Driving, DUI/DWI, Estate Planning, Wills and Probate, Trusts, Civil and Business Litigation and Debt Collection.

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Leesburg Family & Divorce Lawyers > Loudoun County Divorce Lawyer

Loudoun County Divorce Lawyer

Our firm has the philosophy that every family is unique, and so is every divorce. However, in every divorce the goals are the same: to end the marriage as quickly and as cost-effectively as possible, to protect your children from the negative impact divorce can have and ensure that property and support are settled in a fair manner. Contact our experienced Loudoun County divorce lawyers today, we can assist you.

Types of Divorces:

There are really only two types of divorces, uncontested divorces and contested divorces. However, it is important to note that calling a divorce “uncontested” is not exactly accurate. Every divorce has disagreements and a divorce is truly not uncontested until everything is settled. It may be more accurate to call look at divorce from the perspective of a divorce that is litigated in court, or a litigation divorce versus a divorce that is settled in some other way such as between the parties, in mediation, etc., or a negotiation divorce.

Negotiation divorce:

A divorce begins when one or both of the spouses in a marriage decide they want to separate permanently. Once that begins one or both of the parties hire attorneys and proceed with negotiating a resolution to their divorce. Proceeding with a divorce in Virginia without an attorney is risky and it is important you at least talk to an attorney about your case before proceeding on your own.

Our firm usually begins divorces outside of court with a letter to the opposing party letting them know that we are representing their spouse and requesting disclosure of income, assets and debts. Most of the time this disclosure happens but sometimes it does not. If it does not happen, the only option is to pursue a divorce through litigation.

However, if both spouses do the right thing and give full information on the marital estate, our firm them prepares a contract called a “Marital Settlement Agreement.” Some lawyers call it a Property Settlement Agreement or Separation Agreement. This agreement has terms that settle everything about the parties’ marriage and, if signed, is a final settlement of all issues short of getting an actual divorce. Our firm can further help you understand the particulars of the agreement and what you should or should not include in the terms.

Once an agreement is signed to get a divorce Virginia requires you wait one year from the date you separated if you have minor children and six months if you do not have minor children. Once that waiting period is up, one of the spouses files an uncontested complaint for divorce and the parties cooperate finalize the divorce. Usually the spouse who did not file the complaint signs a waiver to let the filing spouse finish the divorce. The spouse who filed the complaint and a witness both do an affidavit and submit that the court along with a final order of divorce and a state form called the VS-4 form. The average out of court divorce takes about 30-60 days at most after the one-year or six-month period has expired. Our firm can not only help you with a Marital Settlement Agreement but also with finalizing your divorce for you.

Divorce in Court (Generally):

When the parties cannot reach an agreement or there are significant issues that require the attention of a court to resolve, a divorce in court is the only option.

In Virginia a divorce is initiated in court when one of the spouses files a Complaint which is a lawsuit that requests the Court grant a divorce to the filing party. That spouse is then the Plaintiff. The other spouse then usually files an Answer to the Complaint which admits and/or denies the facts alleged in the Complaint. That spouses is then called the Defendant. Most of the time the Defendant also files a Counterclaim against the Plaintiff which is like a Complaint in that it is also a lawsuit asking for a divorce. Generally it does not matter who is the Plaintiff and the Defendant in a divorce, but there are times when that may matter and our firm can help explain that to you further. It is also important to note that not every divorce proceeds exactly as the above and our firm can help you understand what other litigation tools are available to you in your divorce.

Grounds for Divorce:

Virginia is a “fault-based” divorce state in that a party may file for divorce based on fault grounds. The most common fault grounds are adultery, desertion (abandonment) and cruelty (physical and/or mental abuse). Divorces can also proceed on what is sometimes called “no-fault” which is really a grounds for divorce based on the parties having been separated for one year. Our firm has extensive experience in all types of divorces and can help you decide which if any grounds for divorce you should use in your lawsuit.

Litigating Temporary Issues During a Divorce:

One of the most important parts of a divorce in court is what happens while the one-year period is pending. Virginia has a process called a “pendente lite hearing” where the Court decides the several issues including temporary custody and visitation, spousal support, child support and payment of marital expenses. The Court may also freeze assets, award attorneys’ fees and deal with health insurance. Many times these issues are agreed upon even though a divorce is in active litigation. Procedures for these temporary issues are different depending on the Virginia County or City you are in so it is important you discuss these issues with your lawyer.


Every litigation divorce usually includes the use of discovery. Discovery is a tool each side has to gather information about the other parties’ assets, debts, position on the issues and evidence at trial. Discovery includes the asking of questions under oath of the other party called “Interrogatories” and document requests called “Requests for Production of Documents.” Some parties also use “Requests for Admissions” which are statements the other party seeks to have you admit or deny and depositions which are discovery proceedings where you are asked questions in-person on the record. Discovery is a very time-consuming and expensive process, and our firm has worked very hard to come up with a system to minimize the headache and expense of discovery.

Settlement and/or Trial:

Parties usually set a date for a trial soon after the filing of the Complaint for divorce. Generally a litigation divorce take at least a year before a trial will occur. A trial in a divorce case proceeds just like any other litigation but without the use of a jury. Trials are very complex and a competent and experienced lawyer is essential to getting the best outcome possible. While your lawyer can never predict much less guarantee an outcome, experienced lawyers can give clients a range of outcomes to help you plan for the trial and its aftermath. Sometimes the best option is not going to trial, and your lawyer should be there to give you the best advice in this regard as well.

At any point during the litigation process the parties can, and often do settle their divorce by executing a Marital Settlement Agreement. The divorce then proceeds just like a negotiation divorce. Statistically speaking, most divorces end in settlement even if they are litigated.


After your divorce is final, there are two possible proceedings that can occur. The first is modification proceedings. Modification proceedings are lawsuits that seek to modify specific issues such as custody, visitation, spousal support and/or child support. Generally speaking the asset and debts allocated in a divorce cannot be modified once the divorce is final.

The second proceeding that can occur after a divorce is enforcement proceedings. These occur when one party is in violation of the final order of divorce or Marital Settlement Agreement and the aggrieved former spouse has to enforce the order or the agreement.

Both modification and enforcement proceedings proceed the same as divorce litigation, however they are generally shorter and less complex than the original divorce. Contact our Loudoun County divorce lawyers for more information or assistance today.

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