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  • John C. Whitbeck, Jr.


    John C. Whitbeck, Jr. practices in the following areas of law: Family Law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation Rights, Adoptions, Spousal Support, Mediation, Arbitration, Relocation Cases, Domestic Violence, Criminal Law, DUI/DWI, Reckless Driving, All Felonies, All Misdemeanors, Juvenile Crimes, Mental Health Law, Civil and Business Litigation, Construction Litigation, Education Law, Election Law, Debt Collection, Consumer and Lemon Law.

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  • Ruth M. McElroy


    Ruth M. McElroy practices in the following areas of law: Family law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation Rights, Adoptions, Spousal Support, Relocation Cases, Pre and Post Marital Agreements, Domestic Violence, Reckless Driving, DUI/DWI, Juvenile Crimes, Felony and Misdemeanor Crimes, Traffic Offenses, Debt Collection, Civil and Business Litigation. She serves the Virginia Court system as a Guardian ad litem.

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  • Jennifer D. Cisneros


    Jennifer D. Cisneros practices in the following areas of law: Family law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation Rights, Adoptions, Spousal Support, Relocation Cases, Domestic Violence, Juvenile Crimes, Reckless Driving, DUI/DWI, Estate Planning, Wills and Probate, Trusts, Civil and Business Litigation and Debt Collection.

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Is Mediation Right for Your Virginia Divorce?


Mediation can be an effective tool for expediting the divorce process in Virginia. It can also save you money and reduce your stress, helping your overall emotional state. However, mediation may not always be beneficial to your particular situation. When you retain a Leesburg divorce attorney, he or she will help you through your divorce, including mediation.

How Mediation Works in a Virginia Divorce

The idea behind divorce mediation is for couples to work out their issues with a mediator as the neutral third party instead of a judge. The judge may order your case to mediation to try and work out the outstanding issues like the division of marital assets. During the mediation, the mediator will speak with each party individually about his or her issues and go back and forth in order to try and get both parties to compromise. Your Virginia divorce attorney will be there to make sure your interests are protected.

Why Should You Consider Mediation?

There are numerous reasons that could lead couples to choose divorce mediation rather than a traditional court trial or collaborative divorce. Some of the potential benefits of mediation can include:

  • More Control Over Your Divorce: Since the process is meant to lead to a resolution and a neutral third-party is involved, you and your ex are the ones who are technically in control. Settling during mediation leaves both spouses with a settlement that they can be content with rather than rolling the dice with the family court judge.
  • Reduces Time in Court: Opting for mediation can reduce the amount of time you need to spend in court. There is more flexibility because you can schedule the mediation around your obligations rather than being told to show up for a number of mandated court hearings.
  • Saves Money: Costs in a contested divorce can add up quickly. With mediation, the entire process is more streamlined and will not take as long as waiting out a court trial. This will cut down on your overall legal expenses.
  • Saves Familial Relationships: For some couples, mediation can help improve their relationship after the divorce. This is important if you have children together as you will be co-parenting.

When is Mediation Not the Best Option?

Every couple is different, and therefore every divorce is different. For some couples, mediation may not be the best option, despite the aforementioned benefits. Some of the situations where mediation would not be ideal include:

  • When a spouse is contesting the divorce itself;
  • When a spouse is attempting to hide or liquidate assets, and he or she is not disclosing all their finances;
  • When a spouse is emotionally or intellectually incapacitated; or
  • When your spouse intimidated or abused you and/or your child.

These situations are ones that are better left up to a Virginia family court judge to decide.

Contact a Leesburg Divorce Attorney Today

If you are preparing for a divorce or have been served with papers, you need your own lawyer who will look after your interests. Contact Whitbeck Cisneros McElroy PC today and let us help you work toward resolving your Virginia divorce as quickly and painlessly as possible.


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